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Rejection? Don't Take It Personally
by Catherine L. Tully
on in my career I auditioned for a dance role in a movie.
There was actually a big Hollywood name associated with the film
and I was really excited. I took extra care getting ready,
arrived early and did all the things I was supposed to do.
At the audition, I learned the steps and danced them flawlessly.
I got cut first round.
When I left the place, I replayed everything in my head
wondering how on earth I had messed this up. I knew that I
danced better than anyone in my group--and for that matter,
better than most of the people there. I couldn't figure it
out--why did they let me go so early?
Feeling crushed, I can remember getting home and having a pretty
good cry, followed by a sinking feeling that I just wasn't
making it in the business. It shook my confidence to know
that I did very well at the audition and it just didn't seem to
Exactly one week later, I ran into a friend of mine who was a
fellow dancer and actor. We got to talking and I told him
my tale of woe from the audition. He laughed out loud and
told me there was no way I could have made it past the first
cut--they wanted blonde women under 5'3. I am a 5'8
This type of situation doesn't just apply to dance--there are
many reasons that you might not get a gig that you try for--and
not all of them have do with your musical ability. Take
heart, and take a look at some of the following:
The Wrong Look
Just like my audition experience, certain gigs can call for a
general type of look and if you don't fit you are out--just like
that. Sometimes you may know this information ahead of
time, but sometimes you might not. There are also
situations where a venue may have certain ideas about what kind
of band or singer they want, but they don't verbalize it to
anyone else. The type they are looking for is in their
head, and you may or may not fit that idea.
Everyone can have an off day--or a bad phone call. At
times you may wind up being the one to suffer. After all,
the people doing the hiring are only human, right? Think of it
this way--the same can happen to you right before an
audition--either way its no reflection on your musical talent.
Plain and simple, real life sometimes gets in the way.
The Experience Factor
Nobody likes to think of this, but it does happen. You are
clearly the best choice for the gig, but it goes to the band who
played the venue last year. Or the guy that knows the
person who is hiring from high school. Generally speaking
professionals in the field will choose the right people for the
project, but occasionally someone slips by on things other than
merit alone. Sometimes people may feel more comfortable
working with someone that they have worked with before, or a
venue just doesn't want to take a chance on an unknown.
The next time you are tempted to give up and throw in the towel
after a frustrating audition, remember that there are some
things are simply not in your control. There are times
that you just can't land the gig--no matter how well you
play--or sing. Don't take every rejection as a reflection
on your ability, because sometimes skill just has nothing to do